In life, finding a right partner is the most crucial thing, you are choosing a lot of things, including your parenting partner, eating companion for more than 20,000 meals, your travel companion for about 100 vacations, your post-retirement companion, etc.
It’s really important to find a partner that has the core values same as yours and someone who can fit into your life perfectly.
With the rise in globalization, most of the singles are influenced by the new cultural changes, Christian singles are finding is quite difficult to find
Stop looking for “the one”
Marriage is not about finding the perfect person that fulfills you, it’s not a lottery where you win or lose. Marriage is all about making things work through compassion, compromise, and support.
If you are looking for that “The one” perfect partner then you will never find them, instead search for someone who has same core values.
You can expand your search by joining online communities that are actively helping Christian singles to find their ideal partner or you can volunteer at the local religious place to meet people with the same outlook.
Don’t compromise with core values
Instead of falling for the pretty faces, find someone with similar core values. With the rise in globalization, people’s lifestyle has been changing and we are getting more materialistic than ever.
The most potent destroyers of relationships are when both partners are pulling against each other; directed in different directions. Before you initiate your search of finding a life partner, have a list of values that you expect your probable partner to have and don’t compromise on those values.
Seek advice from Christian friends
Best advice anyone can give you is the people from the same community, seek advice from the more experienced Christian friends. Its okay to get into the dilemma of choosing between a pretty face or person with stronger core values, but discussing things with Christian friends will make the selection of right partner easier.
Seek advice from the church and god
Why not take advice from the mentors? Start being a part of local churches and consult them about the right path.
Prayer increases focus and our sensitivity to hear from God. We make better God-inspired decisions when we pray often. We stay calm and avoid mistakes.